- I worked with the most unprofessional senior staff member I've ever encountered while at The Mix. I appreciate that high level jobs can bring out the worst in people, but I never expected to meet someone working at a charity (and in such a senior position) who would deliberately create such a hostile working environment. She was rude, patronising, petty, vindictive, played favourites with the staff members, and did not change her behaviour at all until she had been reported to HR. She is clearly skilled at acting like a reasonable person with other authority figures, but will try to intimidate those who challenge her. Her behaviour was always manipulative and passive-aggressive, and it seemed to be an open secret in the office that she was a bully. On more than one occasion, private conversations I'd had with her were recounted to me, word for word, by other colleagues. The situation reminded me of being at an all-girls secondary school where the girls with low self-esteem had to make themselves feel better by trying to make other people miserable too. I am not the only one who felt baffled by her professional conduct; I know of at least four other talented, committed colleagues whose decisions to leave The Mix were heavily influenced by an unwillingness to continue working alongside her.
-Working on the helpline was a stressful and isolating experience, made worse by the antisocial hours and abject lack of support. The company pays lots of lip service to being a pleasant environment, with plenty of pointless meetings about issues that likely have no relevance to your own work, but your concerns will be ignored if you work on the helpline. Originally we had individual clinical supervision, and a (monthly) private opportunity to discuss the workload and how we were coping, which was gradually reduced and then changed to group meetings, making it impossible or at the very least uncomfortable to talk about personal worries or distressing calls.
-In addition to the false statement on the job posting about us having bank holidays off work, the listing stated that there were opportunities for remote working. I was with The Mix for a year and they made no attempt to set up remote working until a global pandemic forced them to. Considering that we were constantly beset with tech issues in the office (which we'd had no training on how to resolve), this made no sense whatsoever. Since we began working from home, and using our own, working computers, the helpline began to function better than ever before.